Addressing the Addressing

//Grey Snail Press//
The Casual Couple If you’re big day is the type that doesn’t take itself too seriously, feel free to keep it simple! No needs for Mister or Misses here! By simply referring to the couple (or single guest) using first and last names, it’s clear who the invitation is for with little muss or fuss!
//Anne Robin//
The Classic Couple This is a more traditional addressing; using the husband’s name to address the couple as a whole. Not every wife is super in love with this style, so don’t be afraid to alter it if you think it might offend. 🙂 Mr. Joseph & Mrs. Shirley Cohen
If you encounter widows, use your best judgement on how they would like to be addressed: Mrs. Joseph Cohen vs Mrs. Shirley Cohen
//Pinterest//
The Whole Family You love your friend’s little ones, and your can’t imagine your big day without them! While addressing the invitation to the children by name sounds like a plan, that can fill up an envelope in no time! By addressing the invitation to the family as a whole, parents know that their wee ones are welcome. 🙂 Keep in mind, if their children are grown and no longer living at home, plan on sending them their own invitation. (That goes for thank you cards too!)
//A Fabulous Fete//
Just the Grownups This is probably the biggest question on the minds of many couples; How do we tell our friends and family that while we love their kids, we don’t want them at the wedding? It’s a tricky issue, but the best way is to start with the invitation addressing. Stick with just the names of the parents. In all likelihood, it will lead to questions, which opens the door up for you to have an honest (but nice!) conversation about how you want them to have a great night out without the littles!
//Lettering by Liz//
Doctors and Such The placement of Dr. of course depends on which member of the couple is the doctor. If the husband is a doctor, address the invitation to: Dr. & Mrs. Cliff Huxtable If the wife is a doctor: Dr. Lauren & Mr. Cliff Huxtable Or if both are doctors: The Doctors Huxtable There are lots of other options for addressing invitations! The possibilities are almost endless. Ultimately, go with your gut. Does your mom just hate it with people refer to her as Mrs. Joseph Chase? Are you proud of your grandfather’s military service? Use titles and wording you know people will be pleased to see as they rip open your wedding invitation with pure excitement and joy. 🙂 Until next time! XOXO
Elizabeth